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The Life of ChristDay 355 of 365

Day 355 of 365 · Resurrection & Commission

Patience

Eleven Disciples Meet in Galilee

Matthew 28:16-17

Scripture · KJV

Matthew 28:16-17

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the went a had

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when they they some

How Jesus Embodied Patience Here

In this remarkable post-resurrection encounter, Jesus demonstrates extraordinary patience in the face of lingering doubt among his closest followers. After enduring crucifixion and rising from the dead, Jesus meets his disciples on a mountain in Galilee "where Jesus had appointed them." Even in his glorified state, he honors the simple appointment he made with them, showing patience with their need for familiar places and structured meetings.

The most striking display of Jesus's patience comes in verse 17: "And when they saw him, they worshipped him: but some doubted." Here stands the risen Christ, bearing the scars of his sacrifice, having conquered death itself—and still some of his own disciples doubt. The Greek word for "doubted" (distazō) suggests a wavering, a being pulled in two directions. These aren't strangers or skeptics; these are the men who walked with Jesus for three years, witnessed his miracles, and heard his teachings.

In first-century Jewish culture, doubt toward a rabbi or religious leader was particularly serious. Disciples were expected to show unwavering loyalty and trust. Yet Jesus doesn't rebuke them, doesn't withdraw his presence, doesn't demand immediate belief. The text shows no record of frustration or disappointment from Jesus. Instead, he continues to stand before them, allowing them time to process the impossible reality of his resurrection.

This patience reflects the deeper meaning of makrothymia—not merely waiting, but maintaining steadfast love toward someone despite their failures or weaknesses. Jesus had already invested three years in these men, seen their fears, their misunderstandings, their abandonment during his arrest. Now, even after his vindication through resurrection, he extends the same long-suffering love to their continued struggles with faith.

Following His Example

First, practice patience with others' spiritual journeys, especially those closest to you. Just as Jesus didn't rush his disciples past their doubts, resist the urge to hurry family members or friends through their questions about faith. When your spouse struggles with prayer, your teenager questions church teachings, or your friend expresses skepticism about God, remember that Jesus allowed space for doubt even after his resurrection. Create safe environments where people can voice their uncertainties without fear of judgment or rushed answers.

Second, show up consistently for the people in your life, even when their responses disappoint you. Jesus kept his appointment on the mountain despite knowing some would doubt. Similarly, continue attending your small group even when discussions feel shallow, keep calling your aging parent even when conversations are difficult, or maintain friendships even when others don't reciprocate your level of commitment. Reliability itself becomes a form of patient love that creates space for growth and healing.

Third, when your own faith wavers, remember that doubt doesn't disqualify you from God's presence. The disciples "worshipped him: but some doubted"—these weren't mutually exclusive responses. Allow yourself the patient grace that Jesus showed his followers. Don't abandon spiritual practices or community when questions arise. Instead, bring your doubts into God's presence, trusting that divine patience is greater than your uncertainty.

Echoes in Other Traditions

This principle of patient persistence in the face of others' doubt and weakness resonates across wisdom traditions. Many spiritual paths emphasize the importance of steadfast compassion toward those who struggle with faith or understanding, recognizing that forcing belief or rushing spiritual development often proves counterproductive. The greatest teachers throughout history have demonstrated this quality of remaining present and available while allowing others the time and space they need for authentic transformation.

Echoes Across Traditions

  • Buddhism

    The Buddha taught about kshanti (patience) as one of the six perfections, emphasizing patient endurance with difficult people and situations. Like Jesus with his doubting disciples, the enlightened one maintains compassion even toward those who reject the dharma.

    Dhammapada 184
  • Islam

    The Quran teaches that Allah is As-Sabur (The Patient One) who gives people time to believe and does not hasten punishment. This divine patience serves as a model for believers in how to treat those who struggle with faith.

    Quran 2:286
  • Taoism

    The Tao Te Ching emphasizes wu wei—patient non-forcing action that allows natural development. Like water that persistently flows around obstacles, the sage remains present without forcing outcomes.

    Tao Te Ching Chapter 8
  • Stoicism

    Marcus Aurelius taught that patience with others' shortcomings is essential wisdom, since we all share common human nature. He emphasized bearing with difficult people as a form of justice and virtue.

    Meditations 2.1
  • Judaism

    The Talmud teaches that God's patience (erech apayim) is demonstrated by allowing time for repentance rather than immediate judgment. This divine quality becomes a model for how humans should treat one another.

    Talmud Rosh Hashanah 17a